O{h}fentse-The High Hour

We are literally at the desk and recapping and answering why this series name: The Art of Forgetting ,#forgettheformerthings. We set the record straight 😎 for all the children and adults who want to experiment with experiences that have proven to be ineffective and productively unhealthy 👍. A raw voice, end of series 📌

We conclude our 2 part conversation with Masego! So much laughter that has is filled with regrouping, reenegising and reflecting foward! 🔌 You haven't listened to our previous episode? Go back and come back 🥰

💯DO YOU MAKE TIME FOR JOY? 🤭Did you know that script-less conversations are the best? 😍Did you know that script-less conversations are a true reflection of how our natural conversationss sound and look like? 🌼We sound and laugh out loud with Mrs Boundaries at Genesis. 🥰This literally a script less episode which turned to 2 episodes. 🤔We are reflective and we do so with the help the book "Make Time For Joy" by Linda Evans☕ Shepherd 🌼... Join Masego and I. 👉 We ask "how has your year been?"

Mr. Otsile is a published short story author( Mr. Fancy and low key). We move slow and stead in so many, deep passings he went through. Guess what? A prestigious life narrator 🏆has a kind way of #goingthrough victoriously. If I were you: I'd listen 🥰🤩.... 💯✨Sounds like a radio conversation!

🤔Do you know what IDIOSYNCRATIC is? Can you define it in your OWN words? Have you EVER had a BIPOLAR week? Deep highs and dragging lows?☕ It's not easy! Sail through this not so high tide with me as we take stock of REAL LIFE, RAW emotional outputs and feels. Are you ready to go the extra mile in understating, kindness & compassionate support? 👏South Africa & The World, let's prepare for the end of year together. #GAURD your heart#thistooshallpass! ❤️

Welcome Back, Dumelang🌻☕! Season 5! Brand new experiences, same Podcaster! Is there art in how we hurt and heal? Why don't we forget the former things or why is it a mission to forget? Join me with 1st male guest of the Podcast🤩! Let's sail through the High Tides of Reinvention! DON'T FORGET TO SHARE...🏑

" My people die because of a lack of knowledge"! 💙Let's sharpen ourself with the lingo/ terms used when we speak about bullying and equip ourselves as to how bullying CAN take place at school and at the workplace ! Are you a bystander or an upstanding when bullying occurs? Have you ever reinforced or assisted in the act of bullying? Bagaetcho! Let's be wise and kinder 💙

Dumelang Bagolo le Bazakes! 🌼Let's sail through the deep and still waters of Bullying. From defining it and attempting to contexualise what bullying is as a foundation for the episodes to follow! Yes, did you know that even adults get bullied? Didi you know that teachers may perpetuate bullying at schools? Did you know Child to Child bullying is so 'common' in and out of school? Well, here we sail through defining bullying & categorizing it! Join us, why don't you.

Ever heard of the phrase "books before boys because boys bring babies"? Well, in this episode we look at an unprovoked case study of abortion of a church girl. In this episode, there are nervous giggles to ease the depth and seriousness of abortion. All this in hopes of asking and starting a conversation about abortion in your little corner, to nib the thought of abortion especially if it's driven by fear. Do you know any abortion stories? How do you feel about abortion? Do you think it's a forgivable choice of sin? Have you ever spoken to teenagers/ young adults about this? Is it something worth speaking about to each other?Are there avenues to help females/ males who have decided to have termination of pregnancy? Do you believe that abortions take advantage of grace bazakes? #NotAdvocatingForAbortion. Ooh, Join us!

This episode is brief yet filled with an abundance of questions. A young disclaimer: I'm not necessarily advocating for abortion bazakes! ☕ Hey basadi le bo Rre, dumelaaaaaaaang! Welkom terug! :) Have you ever spoken about planned peranthood/ Abortion with your masses, your friends, your partner, family or church groups? Do you know anyone who has experienced a miscarriage or spontaneous abortions? What's your take regarding the stigmatisation that comes with abortion? Oooh! Have you ever seen or heard of a woman or a man who disclosed that they have had an abortion in the Church? What's the consequences thereof, especially since people who have disclosed their actual pregnancies receive a 'humiliating'/ desensitised feedback in certain churches? Do churches speak about stillborns, miscarriages & abortions or are they primarily concerned with the babies and mothers who are known and seen? 😮 In the episode, we find out the different kinds of abortions (not explicitly) and explain what miscarriage is. Did you know that women experience similar physical& emotional effects whether they have a miscarriage or an abortion? Then why do you think that we tend to be more sympathetic towards women who have had miscarriages than those who have had abortions? 👶 Is it because abortion is a choice, it may be premeditated and is somewhat immoral?... Did you know that in South Africa between 2018-2019 an approximate number of total abortions had was 105 358 vs in 2016-2017 where the total number was 83 707 for female aged 10-14 years, 15-19 years & 20 years and above? Another question: Do think that there is an increase or decline in abortions stats for 2020-2021 especially since there was an increase of teenage pregnancies? ... Share your thoughts 🐚

Bazakes!Everybody dumelang! In this episode we sat down with an upcoming chef, powerhouse of determination,business woman. A certified cool human, mom daughter, cousin and friend! To me, I behold her as a °very interesting person. This moghel understands the way to a person's heart:)food! We speak about her own journey of her lived womb experience😊. This "child of the soil" explains the power of choosing a name for anything you hope for. Join us as we Wonder about this 10 year milestone. Catch this awesome person on Facebook @Tshelelopele Decor & Twitter@ Decor Kby& @0658607572 .|°Stroll with us, why don't you.

Dumelang Everbody! Threee series together! Dumelang & Welcome Bazakes. In this first ever, uncut prerecorded conversation of The High Hour, I am was joined with Mama Ka Naledi☆, also Masego Mabilo. To all women with and without wombs, Happy Women's Month Basadi♡. In this series we take harbor at the Wonderings of the womb. The womb is defined as a place of creation or/ and production.... I am at home in this episode with a powerhouse female with clothes of kindness, bluntness and openness, Mama ka Naledi☆. Nchoo, Naledi makes adorable features as we converse about her mommy's womb lived experience She also goes by the name Mama Ka Naledi☆. It's a warm and straightforward conversation! She's my first recorded conversion :). We are in wholesome territories of a person mental, physical, emotional, spiritual# Womb Wonderings# idiosyncracies #UncomfortableConversations .......Ps: This is the first recorded episode of the High Hour. Turn your volume up. Mic techniques were less than great! ♡

Oh goodness !Dumelang bazakes! Thank you for your patience. I had to make some sacrifices, the network:( was pulling stunts since publishing hour maar we are!!!!!!Welcome! Thank you for joining the conversation of Introspective Friendship. To all the masses, happy youth &pride month! Sooooooooooo.... In this episode I am alone, all relaxed and collected because while doing research I realized that I have not been sacrificing space and time for the little friends I have. When re-reading the definition of what love is, I caught feelings, only because to some extent I have been "insisting on my own ways" which goes contrary to what the Good News says love is.No love lost: We live and learn. Perhaps you will do stock taking s well:) and we will become the better we think we need to be. Any way, inasmuch as I got to be uncomfortable, I present to you an uncut fifty minutes of how sacrifice, love languages and rewards may be intertwined in friendships. Now, when we talk about sacrificial  friendships we are talking about the friends you have Chosen:Intimate & close friends within the 5 friendship pyramid. Did you know that there are 5 love languages?Did you know that learning and communicating through your friends' love language and your own is a mixture of sacrifice, whether out of love or obedience? HOW??? It teaches you to be selfless  and says that 'i see you& I am understanding'. While we are at it, what's your  primary & secondary love languages :words of affirmation, quality time, gift giving, physical touch or/ and acts of service? I ask the question: Isn't  important that we are as intentional with and in our friendships as much we are in our romantic, parental and sibling relations?Or is it cool that we have half baked and half invested friendships that are only taken care of "at our earliest convenience?" To the Woke friends and Awesome ones, share your two cents on what your perceived sacrifices are (good or otherwise) and let's celebrate in conversation!

Dumelang Everyone!  Happy Youth to all the masses! Hope you are warm! Welcome!! Third episode of the 2nd series! This week we are sailing the cold, cold, still waters...and I am not alone! This week we taking a slow paddle and  converse about how family may make up a huge part of your friendship circles & they thrive! Do you Love & Enjoy your family like this episode's guest??? Share your two cents: what are the dynamics like? This week's guest is the super chilled, reserved Tumelo Kobamelo Nkosi. She is a powerhouse, an aspiring psychologist &entrepreneur. Tumelo is a loving daughter (with 2 moms), a niece, friend, best friend, mamanie, graduate & lover of people BUT, don't mess with her lest your pothole problems become a big hole problem real quick:).  Miss Nkosi is an extrovert and subscribes to the said and 'unsaid' notion of friendship contracts with defined expectations "of the bat". This laid back Lady defines and describes who she is and how she remains true to who she in her tight friendships who are mix masalas of personalities! Tumelo has the weirdest & sweetest pet names for her friends: Jellybeans, Candy floss and even Cocci & she loves her pet name ya ko gae "Tumama". What are your pet names or weird names that are embarrassing or warming which you know and call your friends with?  This mabebeza has approximately 30 plus friends, all categorized in the intimate, close, casual  and acquaintance slabs of the 5 friendship pyramid! Most of her friends are her cousins and they are able to maintain their friendships because they legit enjoy similar "likings". Her people enjoy music, beautiful scenery , food, celebrating each other as  having "golden good sessions".  We share Proverbs as biscuits instead of statistics in this conversation :), one of the firsts being that "sweet friendship refreshes the soul and awakens our hearts with joy, for good friends are like the anointing oil that yields the fragrant incense of God's presence". Tune into this laid back conversation &ponder on all possibilities of goodness! Tumelo is found on the following platforms: Facebook- Tumelo Kobamelo Nkosi, Instagram- Kobamelo_Nkosi and Twitter-Kobamelo@Komamillionaire Join us, why don't you?

Duuuuumelang Everybody!  Happy Pride Month to the LBGTQI and Friends' community! Love and light to you all!  Hoping that all corrective rapes& beatings come to an assertive end through your continuous awareness! This is the 2nd Episode of the 2nd Series! Welcome... In this episode we are joined by a lovely lady, Naledi Ramoruti. She is in conversation with us as we ask: what is your close circle of friends made up? Do you have homogeneous or heterogeneous friendships? So many questions with this business woman, daughter, wife, sophisticated, loving, Mrs High heels & coats, friend, Ragkadi, graduate,  pending Mma Moruti, wife and a lover of people! She defines the term Close Friends. She divulges the top time spenders in her life! From having 20 close friends to no best friend, Naledi explains the gracious impact her friends have in her life and vice versa!  Naledi Ramoruti unpacks bits and pieces on her mental health journey which included good and supportive friends and family! She gives personal tips which help her balance and maintain her variety of friendships as a wife. This is the mo'ghel that hand picks her friends, which allows her to have a fruit salad of friends!!! :) We share good laughs and kind perils of wisdom  with her!  Tune in and be inspired! Naledi Ramoruti found on these platforms: Facebook: Naledi Ramoruti Twitter: Ramoruti_n Instagram:Naledi_ya_meso1 ps. The network tried not  being kind, bear with us.   

Second series!!!! Happyy Africa Month!!!! Wellness is the condition of being "healthy, happy and comfortable". Did you know that bad friends corrupt good morals? Are you Aware of the 5 slab pyramid of friendship? Did you know that the sun& moon can coexist and display a perfect balance of friendship? How many friends do you have? Are you an introvert/ extrovert, do you have the same or different personalities in your friends? Alas! Did you know that there are good and bad friend traits that have an effect on your mental and physical health? Mmmmmh are yoy are good or bad friend?ALL these questions are covered and asked here, in this episode. ☆ Press play

Hello Everybody! To conclude the 1st series, I am joined by a lovely lady. Soft spoken and needs no sound track...Rorisang Kunou.Sge and I affiliate with a group of ladies named ONALERONA- Isaiah 43. We are not bible scholars but we out here anyway! We deep dive into the Holy Bible relating to our topic. We are wearing Isaiah 43:1-2 &Titus 2:6 as our life jackets. We paddle the high tides with Matthew 5:27 & 1 Corinthians 6:12-20. Shuuu! We use some old testament scriptures as our light house. :) The good news? We arrived safely to shore. SOOOOOO, come through and tune in!

So, I am not alone! I am sailing through the waves of the non-verbal sexual meaning behind certain Emojis with Kwanele Monyobo ! A singer, songwriter who can be followed @ https://www.instagram.com/kwanelemusic/?hl=en. A libral to help me and you navigate Sexting! She is also an old friend & the person who introduced me dating & it's various topics! Join us and let's vibe together. ✌

What is SEXTING? What is sextortion? What is grooming? What are the acronyms and abbreviations used in the streets of social media? All this in this podcast!!!!!! Hey... let's get high together and educate ourselves from being naive and late bloomers to being woke and knowledgeable! I am here, you are here.... Let's listen!

Let's talk about when the ideal time is to speak to teens about taking contraceptives. When should the church start engaging in these talk even though abstinence is the way to go? How do we prepare teens to speak up, ask questions relating to sexual activities? Is there a stigma relating to getting contraceptives from the clinic, if so, why?